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Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Has it ever occurred to you that a few or many years down the road, when you walk down the aisle with the partner you would have to live with for the rest of your life..
Is not the one you love most ?
Or you'll rather not get married unless if the one walking down the aisle with you, is the man/woman you love most in your entire life ?

Which is which ? Will you say YES to a marriage to whom is not your most loved ? A simple question yet, the answer complexed.
People always use the term 'man/woman of my life' to represent their other halves.

In a relationship, we brave through rough patches together and enjoy the breeze and simplicity of love during smooth times. There never would be a relationship where everything seems prefect. Perfection is never met, so what determines perfection ? I guess that it's our fantasy. We build sandcastles in the air every now and then, hoping for the sweetest things to happen.
Is that even attainable?
Humans are weird creatures.We’re oddballs. We don't know or rather, choose not to treasure what we have & would always prefer or like something else which seems unattainable by us - perfection. I'm not speaking particularly about relationship itself. It's just any issues in general.

Having a partner to live with you for the rest of your life is never the same as having someone whom you want to just simply be there for love, care and concern. There's a fine line in somewhere in between. Someone to live with you for the rest of your life is not there only for love, care and concern, but other things like, support, or maybe a wee bit of husband/wife-material. One can be the ideal boyfriend/girlfriend material but you cannot imagine living life with him/her. You see no future.

You can tell me that 'I'm wrong'. But look, we always say, "I love my life" during good times. Who would say, "I love my life" during their troughs ? Most wouldn't.

What if you never get to marry the one you love most in your life ? And so what if someone else, whom you see future with (yet not your most love), proposed to you ? Would you say YES ?

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Life's a journey. Walking down the road of life, we may get lost midway. When we arrive at the crossroads, we question ‘What’s the best route?’. Sometimes people allow their mind to navigate them and sometimes their instincts.

You meet people along the way. Probably,you’ll have to work hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder for a time being with them. They might walk with you down the road. Some walk the same route as you,crossroads after crossroads.Some may just leave without a word. Some others would tell you, "We're people of different worlds." and eventually, part with you at the crossroads.
In life, we pass by crossroads after crossroads. How do we know if we'll decide the right path each time we arrive at one ? Why is it that after leaving the crossroads, we start to have doubts in our choices? Even though we know that it's too late. There's no turning back because each different route will lead you to a different crossroad - Taking Route A leads you to Crossroad A, taking Route B will leads you to Crossroad B. Similarly, we bring our experiences with us along the walk of life.

Hiding in a corner crying & telling yourself how much you're regretting something done is a waste of time.
Regret ---> Take it as a lesson learnt ( Make the best out of it ) ----> Experience
Regrets are just another form of experience.
Take it as a lesson learnt. After all, it is a lesson learnt in time.


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I watched 'Hannah Montana The Movie' with Sophia today.
It was great!
I can't wait fot Sats' outing =)
Next movie is 'Ghost Of Girlfriends Past'.

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